Monday, September 21, 2015

Settling in

phwoarrr.

yet another neglected blog!

am able to update only because I don't have much else to do while the hubby is catching up on much needed sleep. though his company has given him a generous 5 day 'honeymoon' leave, which was allocated just after our wedding this past sunday, we don't have much to do or places to go, thanks to my very temperamental womb. good-bad: got my period right after we reached home after the wedding dinner!!!

which means, we will probably be spending this week running errands and getting me into and out of my 'nesting' mode. daily routines, household items, clothes, etc.

I did have a few times where I desperately wanted to update here, especially since Ahma had her heart attack and spinal fracture (due to osteoporosis) in March. But they were really really REALLY negative thoughts, and honestly, I didn't want to nor have the luxury to allow myself to indulge in such depressing thoughts. Ahma is well on her way to recovering, and although 3 days before the wedding we both caught nasty flu bugs, and she is slightly disoriented now due to the medications, I hope dad has a handle on things and is taking good care of her.

The whole wedding day went relatively well, greatly due to the help of hubby's xiongdis, and my cousin and aunt. The xiongdis all remarked that this was the most relaxed wedding schedule they had ever encountered! One up for minimal fuss and keeping things simple :) I veered away from known troublemakers (re: mum and her family) and was kept insulated by my friends and loved ones, and of course, the husband.

The Husband. I woke up the day after the wedding with a smile on my face, and it had been I think, the first night since March that I had a full nights rested sleep. I feel so grateful I am almost in tears.

ok. I will detail more about wedding processes and such in further posts, when I start tallying the costs. aiee.

and of course, photos :)